Cheating Spouse

Do I have a cheating spouse?

First, before reading anything else in this website, ask yourself why you are here. Is it because you think you have a cheating spouse? Or maybe because you already know you have a cheating spouse, and would like to find ways on getting rock solid evidence? If you're answer is because you THINK you have a cheating spouse, then you may already have the answer you are looking for. It is sad because most spouses that think their partner is cheating on them, are actually right.

When a husband or wife thinks their spouse is cheating on them, there is a very high chance that they are correct in their assumption. A spouse knows their partner more than anyone, and if you've been getting that familiar feeling that something is wrong with your relationship (especially if it has been going on for a few months), you have every reason to be here. Researching on behaviors, signs of a cheating spouse, and how to catch a cheating spouse is a very normal thing especially if there has been a shift in the recent months towards your spouse being very secretive or distant. Like giving you the cold shoulder, but still being nice. Deception is not something we want to relate with our significant other.

Do you still think your spouse is cheating on you? Make a list, preferably one you can keep private. A good choice for a private journal is to create your own blog. Blogger gives you this wonderful service for free and you can easily keep the details of your research on cheating spouses to yourself or anonymous. It is better to keep it to "Invitation only" because your spouse may see you listing down things or reading articles such as the ones found here teaching you how to spot a cheater, and how to catch a cheating spouse. This will hurt your sopuse deeply if they are innocent, or if they are indeed cheating on you then they will take counter measures. So private only blogs will be better for what you're going to do.

Cheating spouses are often always secretive and vague about what they do, who they are with, and why they are out so late. In your online private journal, be sure to mark down the things you notice that you consider out of the ordinary or not routine. For everything you list, try and get an answer from your spouse on why, what, or where he or she was at that time then list it on your journal. This will not only give you a clearer view of things, but it will help you when building a case against your cheating spouse.

As you read more from this website you will learn different ways on how to catch your cheating spouse, and also learn various tell tale signs of a cheating spouse. If you don't want to keep a private journal, you could also consider hiring someone to do all of this for you. You don't really need to use a journal, I just suggest this option for tracking and listing your cheating spouses activities because it is private, even if he sees the blog address he will not be able to view it unless he knows your password.

A private investigator is one of the more popular ways of catching a cheating spouse, for those of you who don't want to use anti cheating spouse software (usually keyloggers to get your husband or wife's password). When hiring a private investigator it is always important to do a background check via google. You want someone reputable, been around for a long time, no pending or unresolved cases. Cheating spose can sue your private investigator if he is inexperienced and does something illegal, which would result in you also being sued and may cost you further as you pursue him in court.

Both suggestions I will give here, using cheating spouse spy software, surveillance equiptment, and starting a private journal to keep your findings in, or hiring a professional private investigator will work for you. Both are effective at catching a cheating spouse, but I know most people can't afford private investigators (some even charge up to $150/hour) so I will go about and explain both ways for you to catch your cheating spouse.

Everything that you will find here will be based on our experience, books, and other people's experiences. We are not private investigators, we have just dealt with cheating spouses, and have been successful at it, and would like to help you catch your cheating spouse. I know what it feels like to be decieved by someone you love and trust. It is unbelievable, and may even force you into denial.

Being here is a positive step in your relationship, because there are two things that can happen, you will either find out that you were just wasting time on suspicions that are not real (and be extremely relieved), or that you were right all along and you are being lied to by your cheating husband or cheating wife.

One thing that won't happen when you choose to pursue and find out if you have a cheating spouse is you will never be stuck in that place you are now, filled with stress and anxiety, not knowing what to do or if you're being crazy. You will get your dignity back, and come out a better person once this is all over.

Here's a quiz from Oprah's website that will help you determine if you have a cheating spouse, it is titled "Is he cheating"